Let’s be honest — life with toddlers can be unpredictable. One minute they’re giggling through snack time, the next they’re melting down because you offered the wrong spoon. As parents and educators, we know routine helps, but toddlers also need to feel like they have some control.
That’s where a choice board can make a huge difference.
What Is a Toddler Choice Board?
A choice board is a visual tool that gives young children the chance to make decisions about their day. It’s usually a simple grid where you attach picture cards showing different activities — like reading, playdough, snack, or music time. Your toddler picks from the options, and that becomes the next step in their routine.
It’s visual, hands-on, and toddler-friendly.
Why It Works (And Why I Use One Every Day)
As an early childhood educator, I’ve seen firsthand how choice boards calm big emotions and reduce those sudden outbursts that come with transitions. When kids know what’s coming next — and they get to help decide — they feel safer, more heard, and more in control.
It’s especially helpful for:
Kids who struggle with transitions
Children with speech or language delays
Autism support and sensory regulation
Daycare or classroom routines
How I Use It at Home and Daycare
Each morning, I lay out 2 or 3 cards — for example: “Art,” “Puzzle,” and “Snack.” The child picks one and we place it on the board. Later in the day, we do it again. You can use it for playtime choices, calm-down time, or even bedtime routines.
It doesn’t just help them — it helps me too. Less back-and-forth, fewer meltdowns, and a smoother day for everyone.
My Printable Choice Board Kit
I created this kit to make it easy for other parents, educators, and caregivers to start using a visual routine tool right away. It includes:
A clean, printable choice board grid
12 large visual cards (toddler-tested and educator-approved)
A modern, white background with bright visuals — no clutter
It’s designed for toddlers, preschoolers, and any child who benefits from extra routine and support.
🛒 You can get it here:
👉 Choice Board Kit on Etsy
Final Thoughts
You don’t need fancy tools to create calm, connected routines. Sometimes, a few well-designed visuals and the chance to say “I choose” is all a toddler needs to feel confident.
And let’s be real — we all need a little less chaos and a little more cooperation.
If you’ve never tried a choice board, this is your sign to start.
